Dr. Alan Goldberg
Biography
A SWIMMERS GUIDE TO MENTAL TOUGHNESS
If you really want to maximize your potential as
a competitive swimmer and reach the goals you've set for yourself, then you have
to start today to train yourself mentally as well as physically. Without the
right head set and mental strategies you'll always swim slower than your
capabilities. In order to gain the Competitive Advantage and swim like a winner,
you've got to first think like one. Understand and practice the following ideas
and steps and they'll help you on your way to becoming a champion! Remember you
can't go fast without using your head, and you can't develop mental toughness
without consistent practice.

#1 Keep your Swimming Fun
Do not wait until you win before you start having fun. Champions go fast because
they are having fun! When you enjoy yourself you'll be physically looser and
will swim much faster. Make your practices and meets fun! If you're too serious
and turn your swimming into all work and no fun you will definitely run into
performance difficulties and be a candidate for burnout. Remember, fun and speed
go together. If you find yourself dreading your meets something's wrong.
#2 Have Clear Goals
You can't get to where you want to go unless you know exactly where that is.
Your success as a swimmer starts with a dream, a goal of how far you'd like to
go in the sport. The more detailed a picture you can paint of this goal, the
better your chance of turning your dream into reality. Saying you want to be as
good as you can or go faster are goals that are general and too vague to be
useful. Qualifying for Senior Nationals, or going 50 flat in the 100 fly are
clear, specific and more reachable. Your goals are like magnets which will pull
you in their direction. The more specific and detailed you make them and the
more time you spend thinking about them, the stronger the pull. Try to have your
goals broken down from long term to intermediate to short term so that even on a
daily basis you will have specific goals for practice. This will help you stay
motivated over the long haul.
#3 Make Your Practices Important
Use Simulation in Practice - Most swimmers spend the same amount of time
practicing weekly. However only a small fraction of athletes improve to their
potential. The reason behind this lies in your practices. Practice does not make
perfect, perfect practice makes perfect. Too many swimmers go through the
motions in practice. They put their time in but not their minds or their
emotions. They daydream during sets or wish they were elsewhere. During
difficult sets they look for ways to dog it. You will compete the way you
practice. Practice just like meets, mentally as well as physically, that is make
your practices important, use your imagination to simulate meet or race
conditions. Take a few of those long, boring, painful sets and pretend you're
actually competing. Practice race turns, finishing fast, getting your pain to
work for you, etc. The more important you can make your practices and the more
similar to actual meets, the more you'll get out of them. Every chance you get,
set-up specific race-scenarios in your head and then swim as if everything was
on the line. If you consistently practice this way, the way champions do, you 11
soon find your meet times dropping.
#4 Focus on Your Race One Stroke at a Time
Not on Winning or Qualifying - You will swim your best when your concentration
is on your race, one stroke at a time. You will choke-and swim badly when you
get caught up with outcome thoughts (i.e. winning, losing, qualifying, times,
etc.). The outcome of your race, which is in the future is totally out of your
control! Swimmers who get distracted with this kind of future focus almost
always swim tight and feel heavy. Stay in the now as you race concentrating on
what you are doing, while you are doing it. If you find yourself thinking "What
if ..." that's a reminder that you are mentally in the future and need to change
focus.
#5 Concentrate = Recognize (Step #1) = Bring Yourself-Back (Step #2)
In order to swim as fast as you can you've got to have your mind in the right
place. Concentration is the key mental skill to swimming excellence and mental
toughness. Here's how to do it! Step 1: Recognize that you are mentally in the
wrong place, i.e. in the future worried about an outcome or a swimmer in the
next lane. Step 2: Quickly and gently bring yourself back to a proper focus. You
learn to concentrate by catching yourself when you're not concentrating! This is
the heart of championship concentration.
#6 Learn to Quickly Let go of your Mistakes and failures
Champions do one thing better than everyone else. FAIL!! When a champion has a
bad race they not only use this failure for feedback ("What did I do wrong ...
How can I improve") But just as important, they let it go quickly. In other
words, they don't dwell on the past. When you hang onto your bad races and
mistakes in a meet, the one thing you can count on happening is that you'll get
more of them! Learn to recognize when your mind's in the past and quickly &
gently let it go. Telling yourself things like /'Here we go again", "Why does
this always happen to me" are indicators that your focus is stuck in the past.
Only go into the past if your past is a positive, self-enhancing one!
#7 Stay within yourself ~ Swim Your Own Race ù Stay Mentally in the
Here"
You will swim your very best when you can learn to mentally stay within
yourself, focusing on what you have to do and are doing. Psych-outs and
intimidation can only occur when you choose to start focusing outside of
yourself, on another swimmer. Staying within yourself means that you have to
want to mentally stay in your own lane when you compete. Thinking about someone
else's best times, how fast they finish or how awesome they are will only make
you choke and swim tight. Stay in the "here" by recognizing when you're in the
wrong mental place and bringing yourself back right away to what you're doing.
#8 Control your Eyes and Ears for Championship Meet Performances
Related to #7, learn to control what you look at and listen to, both before and
during the race. That is, only visually focus on things that keep you calm,
composed and ready to perform well. If looking at the gallery, or other racers,
makes you uptight...don't do it! Instead look down at the blocks, or at a spot
across the pool, or one on the water which keeps you relaxed. Similarly, make
sure any things you "look" at in your mind's eye are positive and confidence
enhancing. If you are using imagery and keep seeing a false start, either change
the image or actively look at something else. Controlling your ears means that
you only want to listen to things that will keep you calm, composed, and
confident. If your self-talk is making you uptight change it! Or block it out by
listening to a walkman. Control your eyes and ears for mental toughness.
#9 See what you want to have happen, not -what you're afraid will happen
Winners in and out of the pool have learned to use their imagination (mental
rehearsal and imagery) to help them reach their goals. Make it a practice to
focus on exactly what you want to have happen, not what you're afraid will
happen. Focusing on positive images will calm you down, raise your confidence,
and increase your chances of achieving your goals. Practice mental rehearsal
5-10 minutes at a time, preceded by relaxation in an area free from
distractions. Make your pictures (sounds, feelings) as vivid and detailed as
possible, seeing, hearing, and feeling yourself performing just the way you'd
like to.
#10 Let it happen=speed
When you swim your fastest there is an automatic, effortless quality to your
performance. You are working hard without trying hard. It feels easy, yet
powerful. When you get in to a meet situation you have to remember that in order
to swim your best, you have to relax and let the race happen. If you make your
race too important, you'll get into trying too hard and will swim slower. Trust
that you've done everything you need to, your body and muscle memory knows what
to do, and then just let the performance happen. Swim with effortless effort.
#11 Swim with No-Mind to go fast
A corollary to #10, if you want to go fast you've got to keep your conscious
mind and all of its' thoughts out of the pool. In your best races, not only did
you swim on auto pilot, but most likely there was a no-thinking quality to your
race. Conscious thought slows you down and distracts you. You want to swim
unconsciously with no mind. In baseball Yogi Berra once said "a full mind is an
empty bat." The same applies to you and your swimming. The more you think, the
slower you'll go. Practice, in practice, doing "no-think" swims.
#12 GIGO - you swim the way you think
The difference between your best and worst swims is usually related to your
mental "strategies" just before and during your race. That is, what you think,
say to yourself, and image both before and during your race determines whether
you'll go fast or slow. It you program garbage into your computer (brain) before
a race ("what if I false start,/' /'what if I blow my turn," or "he'll probably
catch me at the finish and win") you will get garbage back out in your
performances. Learn to "program in" good stuff and that's what you'll get back
out.
#13 Be positive - nothing good comes from negativity
When you're negative or down on yourself you sap your energy, drain your
confidence, and insure that you will swim poorly. Practice being positive about
yourself, teammates, and coaches, NO MATTER WHAT. A positive attitude will help
you overcome hardships and setbacks and keep you going. A negative attitude will
trick you into giving up too soon. Winners in and out of the pool are positive.
"Can't," "Never," and "lmpossible" do not exist in the dictionary of their
minds.
#14 Reframe adversity
Learn to look at obstacles and setbacks as a way to get more motivated and to
increase your confidence. Most swimmers complain bitterly about pool
temperature, lane assignments, rain, and fatigue. The great swimmers use any
kind of adversity to help them get the competitive advantage over their
opponents. For example, you can do 1 of 2 things with the pain and fatigue of a
race. You can dread it, fight it, complain about it and consequently tighten up
and back down from it=going slower; or you can reframe it. You can say to
yourself "everyone in this race has to deal with this pain, and I'm mentally
tougher to handle it then everyone else... pain and fatigue is an indicator that
I'm going fast, that my body's working well, and a signal for me to move towards
it, stretching it out and lengthening the stroke." Learn to think like a winner
by reframing. When your swimming gives you lemons... make lemonade out of them.
#15 Act as if - if you- want to become a winner, first you have to learn
to act like one.
Acting as if is the master strategy of champions. If you act the way you want to
become, you'll become the way you act. Acting as if has to do with your posture
or how you carry yourself physically. Watch swimmers after they've had a bad
race and you'll see some interesting stuff. Their heads will be down, shoulders
drooping, facial expression down, and they'll be dragging their feet. If you act
this way physically,-- like a loser, you'- perform like one.A winner's fall back
position is to act as if. If you're-totally intimidated and freaking out before
a race, act as if: act calm and confident. Have your head up, put a smile on
your face, pick your shoulders up and put a spring in your step. Even if you re
dying inside. Show your opponent someone who on the outside looks in control.
#16 Learn to be your own best fan
It's real easy to be nice to yourself and supportive when you're winning.
Champions, however, separate themselves from everyone else because they've
learned to be supportive to themselves when things are going badly. Getting down
on yourself for bad performances will not help you in the long run. It will kill
your motivation and make you an unhappy camper. Learn to be your own best fan.
Someone who is here to share the success and to help you through the tough
times. After all, that's when you need support the most, especially from
yourself.
#17 You are not your races
Learn to separate who you are as an athlete and person from how you do in your
meets. You are not the results of your races. If you have a great meet this does
not make you a great person. More important, if you have an awful meet, this
does not make you the scum of the earth. If you get caught up in putting your
ego on the line whenever you compete, you can be sure of one thing, you'll take
a fall a whole lot. A swim meet should never be viewed as a measure of
self-worth and respectability. By you, your coaches, or your parents!!
#18 Learn to relax
In order to stay within yourself and swim your own race you need to have the
ability to handle competitive pressure. For many, this ability does not come
naturally. You can learn to stay composed under pressure by practicing one or
two of the many relaxation techniques available to athletes. Probably one of the
best is to learn to slow and deepen your breathing. By taking a few slow
diaphragmatic breaths you can very quickly calm yourself down pre-race. Practice
at home sitting for 5 minutes at a time, inhaling slowly through your nose to a
count of 4, and then exhaling to a count of 7- 8, and continuing this process
for the allotted time. Every time you drift, you can practice recognizing that
you've lost your focus and then bring yourself back.